Our Story

In the fall of 2013, Joe was just about ready to “throw in the towel” with online dating and focus on law school, and that was when a handsome, fun preschool teacher flashed on his screen.

Joe and Brent spent the next three months talking online– discussing interests, hobbies, faith, family, and even their hopes and dreams. Their connection grew stronger over those three months, and, in January of 2014, they decided to meet in person for their first date. They bonded over their love for chocolate and Disney’s “Frozen,” and, in that moment, discovered that some people truly are worth melting for.

Over the next few years, Joe and Brent found their lives weaving together more and more. Little adventures like spa days, conquering escape rooms with friends, and exploring new restaurants led to big adventures like a cruise to the Bahamas, moving in together, and trips to Disney World and even to Thailand to visit Brent’s family. Finally, on New Year’s Eve, while vacationing in beautiful St. Lucia, Joe got down on one knee and asked Brent to be his forever. Brent said yes, and the rest is history.

While Joe and Brent’s story may seem like something out of a fairytale, their journey together has not been without its challenges. Coming out to their respective families was hard but also freeing; and while there is still healing as a result of these journeys, Joe and Brent are incredibly thankful to have their chosen family, including you, by their side.

Now, Joe and Brent (along with their dog Benji) are ready for the next adventure. Their upcoming wedding is an opportunity to count God’s blessings, bask in the light of their chosen family, and celebrate a lifetime of love and happiness together. They are so excited for you to be a part of their special day.